1.39pm - Wednesday 4th March 2026 911

People are often surprised by the bluntness but it’s been a long time coming let me tell you, I was a person who didn’t dare answer a phone call and making one was completely out of the question, I’d have rather sloped off into hiding than approach any situation head on, I can honestly tell you I was never comfortable with myself up until after I had children, confidence is something that creeps up on you and learning to live with my quirky points good and bad wasn’t an epiphany it happened over years of growth and self reflection. I know my bad points I accept them fully alongside my mistakes, I am without a doubt a cheerleader I will push you as my friend above myself nothing makes me happier than good people doing well the same applies to the opposite if your not a good person there is no pretending otherwise. Not everyone deserves access to you. These days I will quite happily walk away from something that doesn’t serve me, I will have firm boundaries and in keeping to these in the last few years I’ve found a peace and a confidence I never knew possible. I do look at all the achievements and experiences and wonder how that is the same person who failed college and had no hope? I dunno I landed on my feet with amazing friends and family, the stars aligned literally and I used the opportunities, that’s all we can do really. #luck #ridethewave